You’ll get over it.
You’ll learn to live with it.
She had a good innings.
It was a blessing in the end.
She was a good mother
You should forgive her.
She didn’t know any better
She couldn’t help but batter
A reflex raised her voice.
She had no choice.
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Strong thoughts. All are told after the loss of someone and in the end, the merely are just lies. Thanks for sharing!
Thanks for your kind comments. Loss is one of those areas where people just don’t know how to be empathic, and instead say things perhaps to make it bearable for them.